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Hiv Positive Singles Dating Tips – From Hiv Positive Singles Status To Perfect Partner

Support Staff — Sat, 19 Jun 2010 15:00:21 +0000

Hiv Positive Singles Dating Tips – From Hiv Positive Singles Status To Perfect Partner

There are thousands of AIDS and HIV positive singles in the United Kingdom. If you are one of them and you are ready to become a little courageous then why not try out one of the HIV online dating sites? But beware, should you do you are in for a life enhancing experience. For you will meet new individuals some who will become life long friends and find that you achieve a level of self-belief you never would have believed possible.

For those who do not want to be single, finding a new partner can be difficult. Watching your friends go out in couples whilst you are unaccompanied is not without pain. Soon despair can commence and if these circumstances goes on for any period of time, you can soon begin to question if there is something wrong with you. Should you be one of the many HIV positive singles then dating is even more complicated. Now you have the additional strain of not only trying to find someone to share your life with, but knowing that at some time or other you will have to bring up the topic of your HIV positive status. And when to tell can be more heartbreaking than not dating at all.

Relieving this worry is where specialist dating sites come in. If you choose a good HIV dating site then they are easy to use, fun and relatively cheap. Within minutes of signing up you find you have access to hundreds of potential friends and partners all over the UK. Plus they not only already know about your HIV status they are happy about it.

Using this process you are free to enjoy the ride. Stop thinking about having to notify people about your health, this is no longer an issue. Forget about restricting yourself to looking for that someone special close to home. Forget everything that troubled you in the past and relax. Benefit from the feeling of having choice. Loads of people will want to talk to you, don’t limit yourself. Allow your self-belief to grow and enjoy being one of the crowd.

This process is one of the greatest ways of overthrowing your HIV positive single status. However HIV dating sites are not just for love and affection. When you join you will find that you soon get to know lots of other members. Powerful friendships and alliances will be built. Just having someone (or even nicer), a multitude of people, who understand how you feel and are there to support you, can have such a tremendous effect on your life.

When searching for a good AIDS HIV dating site there are a small number of different types of sites to think about. Some sites are exclusive to AIDS and HIV and others whose members come from a larger selection of sexually transmitted diseases.

Go for one which is as elite as possible for your particular issue. This way you will be communicating with other individuals just like yourself – all HIV positive singles – consequently they will better understand your concerns, and your troubles. This ensures that again you do not have to spend time agonizing or discussing the physical aspect of things to get others to appreciate your issues.

A further decision to make is whether to join a free or a paying membership site. Free sites do not usually have any advanced features and may necessitate you to essentially pay before you can access emails etc. Paying sites usually have better security as they do not permit the entire internet to examine your profile. Check out features of sites to unearth one which fits your requirements.

Once found you will have to sign up and then log in to create a personal profile. It is also a good idea to upload a recent photograph of yourself as well. Your profile and your photo are going to be your publicity. This is how others will discover you. So ensure you are sincere in your write up. At this juncture you can also study other members profiles and either send] them messages or ask them to chat, if live chat is a feature.

Many members transform their HIV positive singles status and stumble upon true love using this technique. Weddings often result. Whether this happens to you or not, no one can say for sure, only time will tell. Nevertheless you will undoubtedly have more fun by joining an HIV dating site, than by sitting at home wishing your life was different. So take the plunge today and eliminate the worry from HIV dating.

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HIV Dating Site Profiles – Five Valuable Tips You Must Always Consider

Support Staff — Tue, 25 May 2010 03:35:57 +0000

HIV Dating Site Profiles – Five Valuable Tips You Must Always Consider

By Ana Smith

There are certain elements which go into making a really interesting HIV dating profile? And it is in your interest to ensure that you heed this advice, especially if you want your profile receiving the attention that it rightly deserves.

Firstly you must remember what your HIV dating profile is there for. A profile is designed to be your advertisement to all the other members of your character. It is your sales pitch if you like. And for this very reason it therefore is competing with hundreds if not thousands of other profiles. Therefore if you want your profile to stand head and shoulders above the rest, take these five tips into consideration.

Tip One: Research.

Before trying to put pen to paper, go and do some research. Log into your HIV dating site and check out your competition. Browse through the other profiles and see if any really stand out to you. Should one catch your interest, then the likelihood is, it will catch others interest also. Write down any ideas you get from studying these member’s HIV dating profiles. You can use their ideas, tailored to your circumstances and personality, but never copy chunks word for word.

Tip Two: The 3 C’s – Concise, clear candour.

When you write your profile write it for the viewer, remember they have loads and loads of alternative profiles to read. Therefore make your profile concise. No one is going to read through a profile which is pages long. Keep it brief and crisp, but also make it clear.

Remember you must keep the viewers attention otherwise they will just click away to the next profile and your opportunity will be lost. So make sure you tell them everything you want them to know. But make it interesting and exciting. If you do not sound appealing then you have lost them.

Lastly remember candour – honesty. Never ever try and spice things up to the extent of fabrication, readers will see through you and know you are too good to be true.

Tip Three: Acquaint them to what you do!

Do not confuse writing your profile to writing your CV. Your HIV dating profile must be personal, so make it so. Allow your character to shine through your descriptions. Tell others what you like, how you spend your time and what you want from life. Try to use simple conversational sentences, which are easy to read. Unless you are an English Professor or you wish to attract one, never try to use complicated language or over detailed descriptions.

Tip Four: Add a real photograph!

Ensure you post a good up-to-date photograph. Make sure it is recent and of decent quality. People like to have an idea of who they are speaking to, so adding an image will greatly enhance your profile getting good responses. The image should be of you by yourself, so if necessary have one taken with a pet or pursuing your favourite hobby if you feel subconscious being alone.

Tip Five: Update regularly!

This applies to both photograph and profile. By adding new interesting things you have done will keep your profile current. This is important as it shows other members that you are actively using the site and that you lead an interesting life. Also your new updated profile may now appeal to members who had previously passed it over.

In conclusion remember this is your sales pitch to the other members of the HIV dating site. So it is vital that it contains your true character and personality. If you follow the above steps in order you will not only find it easier to make your profile interesting, but you will find it easier to write. By ensuring you give a good account of yourself you will find that you receive some great responses from people wanting to know more.

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True Love Real People and Kilobytes, an eBook about Dating

Support Staff — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 08:50:44 +0000

A friend of ours, Sebastyne, has given us a little gift. An eBook about dating on the internet. We would like to graciously present it to all of our members for free, and you can download it here:eBook.

Please stop by Sebastynes and give her some feedback and thanks…

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Dating Tips for Women – Dating Advice

Support Staff — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 10:31:47 +0000

Ladies, there are some things that you should never do while engaging in an online relationship with a man. These things will most definitely put a quick and decisive end to any further communications with him.

If chatting online or via email be sure not to write your life story. Keep it short and sweet until he asks for details, then provide him with details; but only answer the questions he asks.

If he asks how many siblings you have, he’s NOT asking for the details of your interactions with them. He really just wants to know how many brothers or sisters you have. If you have 2, then say you have 2 (or whatever is correct in your case) and then ask him how many he has.

For every question he asks you, ask one of him, don’t make him struggle to have a conversation with you. When a guy struggles to have a conversation with a woman, it’s a huge turn off, and it can send the wrong signal. It might make him think you aren’t interested in him. Another thing that turns a man off is a long- winded woman who doesn’t know when to be quiet, or even more so, one who doesn’t know how to listen.

Never, ever, EVER lie to a man.

I really believe that lies will catch up with you sooner or later. Many women (and men) lie about their age, marital status, employment, height, weight and a few other things in their online profiles. That is a huge mistake.

If you find a man who you are really interested in, he will find out you lied and what trust he had for you will fly right out the window, so to will any possibility of the relationship moving forward. So, just be honest and be REAL. There is someone out there who will like you, even love you, for exactly the person you are.

Don’t be too eager.

This makes you look desperate and it really puts a man off. They are first and foremost conquerors and if getting the person of their desires to like them too is just too easy, they will quickly lose interest. I don’t mean play “hard-to-get”, but don’t push for a face-to-face meeting right away. Don’t email them or IM them too frequently either, but also don’t seem uninterested. Play it safe and play it cool, because you want to be safe, than sorry.

Have a Great Day.

Support Staff.

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Dating and Singles Tips – Give Your Date a Night to Remember!

Support Staff — Fri, 02 Oct 2009 21:35:20 +0000

Author: Mr Online Dating

I am communicating with somebody from a dating site and we are close to getting out on our opening date. Wherever are the most proficient places for our first date?

The bulk of online daters hold their first date at a café. It is a very instinctive and easy surrounding where you are able to create an immediate departure or stay on for hours depending on how the date advances. So what is the most common spot was for a first date, more importantly “the best spots”. Here are a few more options…

1) Miniature golf game.
What’s neat about miniature golf is that it’s an activity date where you aim to experience the new person whilst undergoing some fun. In a locale such as this, it’s more comfortable for your persona (and your date’s persona) to shine.

2) Hole in the Wall Eat Out.
This constitutes among those humble spots that hardly any people know about that deliver absolute great table service and food. It can involve a lot of research on your part uncovering it, but once you discover this gem, it will very much impress both your date and you.

3) Local Comedy nightspot.
Let’s face it,partaking in an entertaining experience during a first date could help build a fast bond. Plan on getting to the comedy club earlyish with your date to get time to know one an other prior to the “main event”. Being able to joke and experience fun on your date is a recipe for a great night. But if you consider your date might be shocked by forceful language or sexual insinuations from a comedian, perhaps it’s better to look somewhere else for a first date.

4) Local carnival or Theme Park.
Reports indicate that proceeding on a date at a theme park assists building a bond as the playfulness related to the event is every bit related with who the event is shared with. Hence getting together at a theme park or local funfair can offer great interactivity and amusement.
While imagining a site for a first date, be originative, but not over the top. Be sure the locale is a spot your date can meet you at (it is never a smart thought to pick up your date or permit yourself to be picked up on a first date). Your initial date might have been to a café, however being a shade imaginative (and unusual) will assist you to stand out from the bunch.

Free Internet dating sites can often be a great place to start for dating ideas. The internet has many free online dating sites and free chat rooms that offer dating related articles for singles who are looking for dating ideas. Participating in singles chat rooms is a fantastic way check out what other singles are getting up to on their latest dating adventures.

Recent internet dating research suggests that 30% of singles now use free chat rooms and online dating sites in an attempt to meet new friends and singles.

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Increasing number of bad profiles

Support Staff — Sun, 20 Sep 2009 18:03:19 +0000

As I have stated in the past, that the standards of thsi site are drastically going up. When we find someone who has filled out their profile with “will fill out later” or any number of gibberish letters such as “jjjjjjjjjj”,”arfjkdjkwljerkljwlekr” or whatever, their profile either will be deleted automatically or declined and they will have a chance to refill it out.

HIV Dating Sites are already a target for Nigerian scammers so why make things worse by having crappy profiles to boot? we refuse to let this happen to this site. Aside from being The Best HIV Dating Site on the internet, we are also the most policed of all the sites that can be found.

We have many members who are actually paid by us to intercept and root out scammers as well as the competition who sign up just to send emails to other members and tell them to come look at their profile on xyzdatingsite.com. Come on people, we all know that trick, and it’s no working.

Here at www.hivpoz.net we pride ourselves on how much we police the site for scammers. So much so that we installed a “Report Spam” link in everyones email. It’s on the left side of the email if you are reading an open email. All you do is click the link and it sends the senders email address, profile name and email to the administrators of this site for investigation. We love catching scammers and spammers and banning their subset of IP addresses from this whole site.

It seems lately their have not been many scammers on because we catch most if not all of them. This is through the help of all the members of the site. We really appreciate this.

Thank You to ALL of our members,

Support.

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Find Love Online – 5 Tips for Online Dating

Support Staff — Wed, 16 Sep 2009 08:28:45 +0000

In an article on ABC News’ Website, they had an article about How To Find Love Online. They gave 5 quick tips and then went into the tips extensively. I highly recommend this article on How To Find Love Online. Here are the quick tips and the link to the full article afterward.

Here are five tips for dating online.
1. Differentiate yourself with details.
2. Pick the perfect profile picture: It is close-up. It is smiling. It is recent.
3. Search for partners strategically. What you look for is irrelevant if they’re not looking for you back.
4. Before you publish your profile, solicit some feedback from your friends.
5. Write a winning first e-mail.

You can read the full article and explanation of the 5 Tips to Find Love Online Here.

A great article and it’s free.

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Online Dating Tips

Support Staff — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 09:58:21 +0000

1. If you add a photo you will get 10 times as many responses.

2. Change your Subject Line occasionally when sending emails; people who aren’t original have their emails deleted without being read.

3. Non-paying members can use the instant messenger feature with any of the other online members for free. To find out who is currently online, click on ‘Click here to see who is online’ in the members area. You can instant message anyone – simply click on the ‘instant message’ link.

4. Message users without pictures; these users get far less emails making it far more likely they will reply to you.

5. In the members area you can see who has viewed your profile, by going here: http://www.hivpoz.net/index.php?page=members_area

6. To hide your online presence or other privacy features such as blocking people or “Hide me from the who’s viewed profile list” go here: http://www.hivpoz.net/index.php?page=privacy

You can also turn off the instant messenger there as well.

7. You can see this and other tips and updates in the Support Staff Blog here:

http://www.hivpoz.net/blog/

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Dating Profile standards are going up.

Support Staff — Mon, 14 Sep 2009 19:25:20 +0000

In an effort to make this one of, if not THE top HIV Positive Dating Site, we have decided that from now on all profiles must be filled out with a description of more than “will fill this out later”. Many times thats what people will do and will never get around to really doing it.

Here at www.hivpoz.net we feel that in order to have a quality site you have to have quality profiles. This includes profiles that are filled out with a good description. Not only is it a waste of time for us and people looking at profiles, but it is a waste of time for the person who created the profile. Why, because no one is going to email the person without a description, and they just wasted however many minutes making the profile, only to be declined.

Quality Positive Singles are what we strive to have here at www.hivpoz.net, and Quality Positive Singles is what we will have. An aside, with the presence of spammers and scammers on many dating sites we are constantly policing the site for scammers. If you receive an email from a suspected scammer please report them to us, by using the “Report Spam” link inside of your email inbox.

We hope to provide you with the best online dating experience possible.

Thanks,

Support.

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The New Blog for HIVPOZ.NET

Support Staff — Sun, 13 Sep 2009 21:50:18 +0000

I’ve decided to put a blog here for updates and just general rambling. I’ve been running this site for 13+ years now. Well not this exact URL, but i started the worlds first HIV+ dating site, 13 years ago. It was born of a broken heart and the fact that there was no dating services for HIV+ individuals. I think there were some or something for the gay community, but there was nothing for the heterosexual community. So that what I did, I started the worlds first HIV+ Heterosexual dating service.

After a while people started asking me if they could be on it who were gay. At first I balked, but then in asking why the person replied there was no dating site for HIV+ Gay people either. That’s when I said OK, I make it all sexual preferences. I exclude no one. That’s when things went big. I realized there was a need for the whole HIV+ community, and that’s were I decided this would be my personal labor of love. This HIV+ dating Site, for HIV Positive Singles.

At first I hand coded the website, adn people used to email their profiles and pictures directly to me, and then I found the beauty of CGI, and I made it almost automatic. I didn’t figure out how to upload and attach a picture but people could come and put up a profile, and I didn’t need to be there to do it. It was automatic.

I soon realized there were these things called Nigerian Scammers. Yeah boy, was I surprised but I guess we were all virgins at one time or another right? I had someone email me, yelling at me, saying that I owed him several hundreds of dollars because someone he met on my site scammed him out of money. Basically a scammer got a hold of him, told him she loved him and needed money to come fly to him. He unwittingly sent it. And never heard from her again.

That was my first experience with a scammer or someone who had been scammed. and to him I am sorry, but it is not my responsibility to make sure you don’t send someone on the net money. I have however placed FAQs and other useful information pages up and a page specifically about scammers and spammers.

Ok I need to do soem work on the site and get some excercise in today. I will be posting a new one later.

Ciao…

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