How To Online Flirt – Online Flirting, a New Artform
Many of the same things work for online flirting that work for “Offline” flirting and all relationships begin with successful flirting. Flirting is an art that requires oozing confidence without being OTT(Over The Top). If you go too far, they will label you as “slimy”. If you don’t go far enough, they will label you “wimpy”. So how do you achieve that point half way between slimy and wimpy and do it online without using eye contact or body language? All you have is a computer, an internet connection and a membership in an online dating site, right? Listen up! Learning How To Online Flirt is Simple!
1. Have fun! Be light-hearted, funny and entertaining. Make them eager to talk to you again. Flirting is playful.
2. You have to Ooze with confidence. Successful flirts have a positive outlook on life. You need to transmit the “feel good” factor. An optimistic attitude attracts partners like honey attracts Bees. Feeling good is addictive!
3. Compliment them…and do it often and sincerely. Nothing opens doors like making the person of interest feel good about themselves. They will want to spend more time with you and if they pay you a compliment say “thank you”. Do NOT be self depreciating.
4. Listen…listen….listen. Pay attention to what they say and ask appropriate questions. Get them to open up and talk about themselves. Make them feel like they are interesting and that you are interested in them. Listening, Works wonders!
5. Don’t be rude. Period. Flirting does not include being sexually explicit nor taking offense if the person isn’t responding to you. If they aren’t interested, take the hint and move on to the next prospect. If you get a lot of rejections, you might want to consider a different approach.
6. Send an email after you chat. This ranks right up there with sending a thank you note for a gift and it is vital to successful flirting. Really, This is Important!
Don’t try to go too fast. Flirting is the first step to a successful relationship. It is also the thing that keeps a relationship alive and on fire!
How To Online Flirt – Online Flirting, a New Artform
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