Ladies, there are some things that you should never do while engaging in an online relationship with a man. These things will most definitely put a quick and decisive end to any further communications with him.
If chatting online or via email be sure not to write your life story. Keep it short and sweet until he asks for details, then provide him with details; but only answer the questions he asks.
If he asks how many siblings you have, he’s NOT asking for the details of your interactions with them. He really just wants to know how many brothers or sisters you have. If you have 2, then say you have 2 (or whatever is correct in your case) and then ask him how many he has.
For every question he asks you, ask one of him, don’t make him struggle to have a conversation with you. When a guy struggles to have a conversation with a woman, it’s a huge turn off, and it can send the wrong signal. It might make him think you aren’t interested in him. Another thing that turns a man off is a long- winded woman who doesn’t know when to be quiet, or even more so, one who doesn’t know how to listen.
Never, ever, EVER lie to a man.
I really believe that lies will catch up with you sooner or later. Many women (and men) lie about their age, marital status, employment, height, weight and a few other things in their online profiles. That is a huge mistake.
If you find a man who you are really interested in, he will find out you lied and what trust he had for you will fly right out the window, so to will any possibility of the relationship moving forward. So, just be honest and be REAL. There is someone out there who will like you, even love you, for exactly the person you are.
Don’t be too eager.
This makes you look desperate and it really puts a man off. They are first and foremost conquerors and if getting the person of their desires to like them too is just too easy, they will quickly lose interest. I don’t mean play “hard-to-get”, but don’t push for a face-to-face meeting right away. Don’t email them or IM them too frequently either, but also don’t seem uninterested. Play it safe and play it cool, because you want to be safe, than sorry.
Have a Great Day.
Support Staff.
