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Hiv Positive Singles Dating Tips – From Hiv Positive Singles Status To Perfect Partner

Support Staff — Sat, 19 Jun 2010 15:00:21 +0000

Hiv Positive Singles Dating Tips – From Hiv Positive Singles Status To Perfect Partner

There are thousands of AIDS and HIV positive singles in the United Kingdom. If you are one of them and you are ready to become a little courageous then why not try out one of the HIV online dating sites? But beware, should you do you are in for a life enhancing experience. For you will meet new individuals some who will become life long friends and find that you achieve a level of self-belief you never would have believed possible.

For those who do not want to be single, finding a new partner can be difficult. Watching your friends go out in couples whilst you are unaccompanied is not without pain. Soon despair can commence and if these circumstances goes on for any period of time, you can soon begin to question if there is something wrong with you. Should you be one of the many HIV positive singles then dating is even more complicated. Now you have the additional strain of not only trying to find someone to share your life with, but knowing that at some time or other you will have to bring up the topic of your HIV positive status. And when to tell can be more heartbreaking than not dating at all.

Relieving this worry is where specialist dating sites come in. If you choose a good HIV dating site then they are easy to use, fun and relatively cheap. Within minutes of signing up you find you have access to hundreds of potential friends and partners all over the UK. Plus they not only already know about your HIV status they are happy about it.

Using this process you are free to enjoy the ride. Stop thinking about having to notify people about your health, this is no longer an issue. Forget about restricting yourself to looking for that someone special close to home. Forget everything that troubled you in the past and relax. Benefit from the feeling of having choice. Loads of people will want to talk to you, don’t limit yourself. Allow your self-belief to grow and enjoy being one of the crowd.

This process is one of the greatest ways of overthrowing your HIV positive single status. However HIV dating sites are not just for love and affection. When you join you will find that you soon get to know lots of other members. Powerful friendships and alliances will be built. Just having someone (or even nicer), a multitude of people, who understand how you feel and are there to support you, can have such a tremendous effect on your life.

When searching for a good AIDS HIV dating site there are a small number of different types of sites to think about. Some sites are exclusive to AIDS and HIV and others whose members come from a larger selection of sexually transmitted diseases.

Go for one which is as elite as possible for your particular issue. This way you will be communicating with other individuals just like yourself – all HIV positive singles – consequently they will better understand your concerns, and your troubles. This ensures that again you do not have to spend time agonizing or discussing the physical aspect of things to get others to appreciate your issues.

A further decision to make is whether to join a free or a paying membership site. Free sites do not usually have any advanced features and may necessitate you to essentially pay before you can access emails etc. Paying sites usually have better security as they do not permit the entire internet to examine your profile. Check out features of sites to unearth one which fits your requirements.

Once found you will have to sign up and then log in to create a personal profile. It is also a good idea to upload a recent photograph of yourself as well. Your profile and your photo are going to be your publicity. This is how others will discover you. So ensure you are sincere in your write up. At this juncture you can also study other members profiles and either send] them messages or ask them to chat, if live chat is a feature.

Many members transform their HIV positive singles status and stumble upon true love using this technique. Weddings often result. Whether this happens to you or not, no one can say for sure, only time will tell. Nevertheless you will undoubtedly have more fun by joining an HIV dating site, than by sitting at home wishing your life was different. So take the plunge today and eliminate the worry from HIV dating.

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HIV Dating Site Profiles – Five Valuable Tips You Must Always Consider

Support Staff — Tue, 25 May 2010 03:35:57 +0000

HIV Dating Site Profiles – Five Valuable Tips You Must Always Consider

By Ana Smith

There are certain elements which go into making a really interesting HIV dating profile? And it is in your interest to ensure that you heed this advice, especially if you want your profile receiving the attention that it rightly deserves.

Firstly you must remember what your HIV dating profile is there for. A profile is designed to be your advertisement to all the other members of your character. It is your sales pitch if you like. And for this very reason it therefore is competing with hundreds if not thousands of other profiles. Therefore if you want your profile to stand head and shoulders above the rest, take these five tips into consideration.

Tip One: Research.

Before trying to put pen to paper, go and do some research. Log into your HIV dating site and check out your competition. Browse through the other profiles and see if any really stand out to you. Should one catch your interest, then the likelihood is, it will catch others interest also. Write down any ideas you get from studying these member’s HIV dating profiles. You can use their ideas, tailored to your circumstances and personality, but never copy chunks word for word.

Tip Two: The 3 C’s – Concise, clear candour.

When you write your profile write it for the viewer, remember they have loads and loads of alternative profiles to read. Therefore make your profile concise. No one is going to read through a profile which is pages long. Keep it brief and crisp, but also make it clear.

Remember you must keep the viewers attention otherwise they will just click away to the next profile and your opportunity will be lost. So make sure you tell them everything you want them to know. But make it interesting and exciting. If you do not sound appealing then you have lost them.

Lastly remember candour – honesty. Never ever try and spice things up to the extent of fabrication, readers will see through you and know you are too good to be true.

Tip Three: Acquaint them to what you do!

Do not confuse writing your profile to writing your CV. Your HIV dating profile must be personal, so make it so. Allow your character to shine through your descriptions. Tell others what you like, how you spend your time and what you want from life. Try to use simple conversational sentences, which are easy to read. Unless you are an English Professor or you wish to attract one, never try to use complicated language or over detailed descriptions.

Tip Four: Add a real photograph!

Ensure you post a good up-to-date photograph. Make sure it is recent and of decent quality. People like to have an idea of who they are speaking to, so adding an image will greatly enhance your profile getting good responses. The image should be of you by yourself, so if necessary have one taken with a pet or pursuing your favourite hobby if you feel subconscious being alone.

Tip Five: Update regularly!

This applies to both photograph and profile. By adding new interesting things you have done will keep your profile current. This is important as it shows other members that you are actively using the site and that you lead an interesting life. Also your new updated profile may now appeal to members who had previously passed it over.

In conclusion remember this is your sales pitch to the other members of the HIV dating site. So it is vital that it contains your true character and personality. If you follow the above steps in order you will not only find it easier to make your profile interesting, but you will find it easier to write. By ensuring you give a good account of yourself you will find that you receive some great responses from people wanting to know more.

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HIV Positive Singles Advice – Is Your HIV Positive Singles Status Getting You Down?

Support Staff — Tue, 25 May 2010 03:32:38 +0000

HIV Positive Singles Advice – Is Your HIV Positive Singles Status Getting You Down?

By Ana Smith

If you are one of the thousands of AIDS or HIV positive singles and you are willing to be a little adventurous then what better way to meet new people than to try out one of the HIV online dating sites? The benefits of meeting new people, ease of use and constant support and friendship combined with the increase in confidence experienced by many members are not be sniffed at.

Being single is no fun, especially when all around you are happy in their relationship bubbles. You feel left out, alone and restricted. Some even feel as if there is something wrong with them. However being one of the many AIDS or HIV positive singles is even worse. Dating takes on added pressure, you have a problem; do you tell people at the onset or worry about telling them later? It can make you anxious and sometimes you feel that it is easier just not to bother.

Here is where the HIV dating sites come into their own. They are fun, easy to use and less expensive than trying to meet new people in the conventional way, especially as it is easy to talk to others all over the country at a click of a mouse. Then there is the added bonus of not needing to tell anyone of your HIV or AIDS, they already know and they do not mind one little bit.

No longer do you have to agonise over whether to tell someone at the first, second or subsequent dates. No longer do you have to restrict yourself to dating in the same town, where people know you. With online dating your confidence can soar. And rise it will as you are on a level playing field. People want to hear what you have to say. They look forward to speaking to new and interesting people.

You now have the option to do something about your HIV positive single status. However these AIDS HIV dating sites are not just for love, they can provide strong friendships and support. For members know what it is like to be in your shoes, they wear similar ones themselves. These people really do understand and so will be there with a comforting ear and a joke or two in times of trouble.

There are many different online dating sites to choose from. Make sure however that you choose a good AIDS HIV membership site. There are several to choose from, some which are exclusive and others which cater for the more broader STDs.

To really stand you in good stead go for a site which caters exclusively for your particular issue. For here you will be mixing with other HIV positive singles and so this will ensure that other members understand exactly where you are coming from. This fact alone will increase your confidence as you will be around those who understand you and your needs.

Some sites are free and others charge a membership fee. Paying is not a bad option, as these sites usually have better privacy and security. Some dating sites allow anyone to access profiles and this may not be in your interest. Other sites have added features such as live chat and buddy features. So look around and ensure that the site you choose fits your individual requirements.

Once you have found a good reliable AIDS HIV dating date then you will need to create a personal profile and upload a good up to date photograph of yourself. Your photo and profile are how other members find out about you, so it is important to make these are first-class as you can, ensuring that you are completely honest. Additionally you can read other members profiles and send them messages or ask them for a chat.

Whether or not you find the love of your life – and many members do! You will certainly have some fun and enjoy yourself whilst being you with nothing to hide. So take the leap now and make a difference to your own world. Join an online HIV AIDS dating site today and say goodbye to your HIV positive singles status.

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True Love Real People and Kilobytes, an eBook about Dating

Support Staff — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 08:50:44 +0000

A friend of ours, Sebastyne, has given us a little gift. An eBook about dating on the internet. We would like to graciously present it to all of our members for free, and you can download it here:eBook.

Please stop by Sebastynes and give her some feedback and thanks…

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Quality Dating Profiles and Quality People

Support Staff — Sat, 10 Oct 2009 21:44:55 +0000

We’ve stated before that the quality of the profiles written on our site was going to be going up. It’s funny how people don’t read the fine print. When someone registers for this site they receive an email with the guidelines for quality and profiles.

We get an occasional email from an angry person because we didn’t post their profile that said “will do later” or some other short non descriptive couple of words. We also get an occasional email from someone who appreciates what we do for them. Appreciative of the fact that we are even here for people with HIV to date and find others to communicate with.

We received this angry email the other day:

“it doesnt matter what you think my profile should be its the way it is and that it, if you dont like then fuckin cancel the mofo either way I could careless”

No we didn’t edit it. After asking this person if they minded if we deleted his account we got another angry email saying:

“I wouldnt give a fuck if your ass your site is a joke to begin with have a nice life”

No not edited either.

We received this email the same day:

“Thank you for giving us the opportunity to meet online”

It’s amazing how just a little kindness, a few kind words, can make all the difference in the world, can lighten the heaviest of loads and make a persons day.

Next time someone opens a door for you, look them straight in the eyes and say thank you, and Mean It.

have a good day folks…

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Dating Site Tips – Employee Email Privacy

Support Staff — Sun, 20 Sep 2009 19:07:07 +0000

One thing that never ceases to amaze us here at www.hivpoz.net is when people use their work email address on an HIV Positive Dating Site. Occasionally we send out Newsletters to inform people of a special discount or news about the site or something relevant to the site. We occasionally get an auto response from someone’s email address saying they are “out of the office” or “on vacations and will return in X Days or weeks”.

Then they return to work and find that someone was checking their email while they were away and find that someone has looked at or opened their email newsletter from an “HIV Positive Dating Site”. How smart is that? Then we get a nasty email from said person about anonymity this and that, when it was they who should have thought about the consequences of their actions.

I am an IT Consultant, and I consistently tell people in the workplace, “If you don’t want something to e seen or read, do not use your personal email at work. Why? Because the place of employment may have in place monitoring systems that record email addresses, passwords and other things.

I used to be a full time employee of a place that I was the head of the IT department. We did have in place a monitoring system that recorded passwords and email addresses. We also had a policy and employees had to sign it and understand that if they check their email at work it is subject to monitoring. Nothing was private at work and we did find several things employee’s were doing that we fired them for. Employee beware.

The fact that you use a work email address for an HIV Positive dating site is one thing, but the real situation here is the fact that you used a company email address for a Dating Site. It really doesn’t matter that it’s for people who are HIV Positive, it’s more of you were on the internet, on a dating site,w hen you should have been working. Not exactly what the company had in mind for your use of time. Right?

There are plenty of free email sites that you can get an email address from, hotmail, google, yahoo and many others. Take a moment and get yourself one to insure your privacy and anonymity.

Enjoy the day,

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Increasing number of bad profiles

Support Staff — Sun, 20 Sep 2009 18:03:19 +0000

As I have stated in the past, that the standards of thsi site are drastically going up. When we find someone who has filled out their profile with “will fill out later” or any number of gibberish letters such as “jjjjjjjjjj”,”arfjkdjkwljerkljwlekr” or whatever, their profile either will be deleted automatically or declined and they will have a chance to refill it out.

HIV Dating Sites are already a target for Nigerian scammers so why make things worse by having crappy profiles to boot? we refuse to let this happen to this site. Aside from being The Best HIV Dating Site on the internet, we are also the most policed of all the sites that can be found.

We have many members who are actually paid by us to intercept and root out scammers as well as the competition who sign up just to send emails to other members and tell them to come look at their profile on xyzdatingsite.com. Come on people, we all know that trick, and it’s no working.

Here at www.hivpoz.net we pride ourselves on how much we police the site for scammers. So much so that we installed a “Report Spam” link in everyones email. It’s on the left side of the email if you are reading an open email. All you do is click the link and it sends the senders email address, profile name and email to the administrators of this site for investigation. We love catching scammers and spammers and banning their subset of IP addresses from this whole site.

It seems lately their have not been many scammers on because we catch most if not all of them. This is through the help of all the members of the site. We really appreciate this.

Thank You to ALL of our members,

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Find Love Online – 5 Tips for Online Dating

Support Staff — Wed, 16 Sep 2009 08:28:45 +0000

In an article on ABC News’ Website, they had an article about How To Find Love Online. They gave 5 quick tips and then went into the tips extensively. I highly recommend this article on How To Find Love Online. Here are the quick tips and the link to the full article afterward.

Here are five tips for dating online.
1. Differentiate yourself with details.
2. Pick the perfect profile picture: It is close-up. It is smiling. It is recent.
3. Search for partners strategically. What you look for is irrelevant if they’re not looking for you back.
4. Before you publish your profile, solicit some feedback from your friends.
5. Write a winning first e-mail.

You can read the full article and explanation of the 5 Tips to Find Love Online Here.

A great article and it’s free.

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Dating Profile standards are going up.

Support Staff — Mon, 14 Sep 2009 19:25:20 +0000

In an effort to make this one of, if not THE top HIV Positive Dating Site, we have decided that from now on all profiles must be filled out with a description of more than “will fill this out later”. Many times thats what people will do and will never get around to really doing it.

Here at www.hivpoz.net we feel that in order to have a quality site you have to have quality profiles. This includes profiles that are filled out with a good description. Not only is it a waste of time for us and people looking at profiles, but it is a waste of time for the person who created the profile. Why, because no one is going to email the person without a description, and they just wasted however many minutes making the profile, only to be declined.

Quality Positive Singles are what we strive to have here at www.hivpoz.net, and Quality Positive Singles is what we will have. An aside, with the presence of spammers and scammers on many dating sites we are constantly policing the site for scammers. If you receive an email from a suspected scammer please report them to us, by using the “Report Spam” link inside of your email inbox.

We hope to provide you with the best online dating experience possible.

Thanks,

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The New Blog for HIVPOZ.NET

Support Staff — Sun, 13 Sep 2009 21:50:18 +0000

I’ve decided to put a blog here for updates and just general rambling. I’ve been running this site for 13+ years now. Well not this exact URL, but i started the worlds first HIV+ dating site, 13 years ago. It was born of a broken heart and the fact that there was no dating services for HIV+ individuals. I think there were some or something for the gay community, but there was nothing for the heterosexual community. So that what I did, I started the worlds first HIV+ Heterosexual dating service.

After a while people started asking me if they could be on it who were gay. At first I balked, but then in asking why the person replied there was no dating site for HIV+ Gay people either. That’s when I said OK, I make it all sexual preferences. I exclude no one. That’s when things went big. I realized there was a need for the whole HIV+ community, and that’s were I decided this would be my personal labor of love. This HIV+ dating Site, for HIV Positive Singles.

At first I hand coded the website, adn people used to email their profiles and pictures directly to me, and then I found the beauty of CGI, and I made it almost automatic. I didn’t figure out how to upload and attach a picture but people could come and put up a profile, and I didn’t need to be there to do it. It was automatic.

I soon realized there were these things called Nigerian Scammers. Yeah boy, was I surprised but I guess we were all virgins at one time or another right? I had someone email me, yelling at me, saying that I owed him several hundreds of dollars because someone he met on my site scammed him out of money. Basically a scammer got a hold of him, told him she loved him and needed money to come fly to him. He unwittingly sent it. And never heard from her again.

That was my first experience with a scammer or someone who had been scammed. and to him I am sorry, but it is not my responsibility to make sure you don’t send someone on the net money. I have however placed FAQs and other useful information pages up and a page specifically about scammers and spammers.

Ok I need to do soem work on the site and get some excercise in today. I will be posting a new one later.

Ciao…

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