The Truth About Dating For People With HIV

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We are constantly dealing with members who are downright mean and offensive. Angry and bitter at the world. A member gets a virtual kiss from a member of the same sex,  and not being gay, emails the support staff, angry and accusing the support staff of it being our fault.

Hey sometimes people send VK’s to the members of the same sex just seeing what will happen and not worrying if the person is gay or straight. sometimes it’s a scammer that got by us in the first place just trying to make sme sort of contact with anyone in order to try to scam money. what ever the situation is, be careful. Be they scammers or angry people, just be careful.

We have a small staff here, and sometimes it really can get to a person the offensive emails and abusive language. We’ve be the longest running HIV+ dating service around, for more than 13 years. People email us hoping we go bankrupt, or something terrible happens to us and sometimes they attack us personally. Most of the time we just say thank you and move on. We’ve had to let one employee go for responding in a manner that, while we understand why he did it, we still couldn’t have them on here anymore.

We started out as an HIV+ Dating service for heterosexuals only, when we first started. Then the gay community started asking if they could post ads on here as well, and at first we weren’t sure what to do. We decided that anyone who is HIV+ or has AIDS is allowed to post here and we changed the verbage. Now this is just a dating service for HIV+ Individuals. One customer either misread the email we sent them, or they were just another angry person, but they responded with an email saying they were tired of how gays were treated as second class and this and that. We had to try to tell this person they probably read the email wrong. Eventually we had to ask this person to go to another dating site as he was just causing trouble for the support staff.

Either way, just be careful out there with whom you choose to date. You just never know who you are going to meet, and meet in a public place.

Be sure to check out our new sister site exclusively for the gay community. www.gayhivpoz.com

Have a great day!

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We are Finalists!

The 2009 iDate Awards!
Please go HERE

To place your Vote for us.A t the Bottom for:
Best Up and Coming Dating Site
Best Marketing Campaign

Anyone Can Vote

Please Vote For Us

We made it! We are finalists in the 2010 Internet Dating Awards.

Best Up and Coming Dating Site and Best Marketing Campaign.

Best Marketing campaign is not spamming people and optimizing our site for the search engines so that you can find us better and easier.

Wow are we ever stoked! Thank you to our members for making us the Best, in our eyes WE AR the best!

Thank You,

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A friend of ours, Sebastyne, has given us a little gift. An eBook about dating on the internet. We would like to graciously present it to all of our members for free, and you can download it here:eBook.

Please stop by Sebastynes and give her some feedback and thanks…

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Ladies, there are some things that you should never do while engaging in an online relationship with a man.  These things will most definitely put a quick and decisive end to any further communications with him.

If chatting online or via email be sure not to write your life story.  Keep it short and sweet until he asks for details, then provide him with details; but only answer the questions he asks.

If he asks how many siblings you have, he’s NOT asking for the details of your interactions with them.  He really just wants to know how many brothers or sisters you have. If you have 2, then say you have 2 (or whatever is correct in your case) and then ask him how many he has.

For every question he asks you, ask one of him, don’t make him struggle to have a conversation with you. When a guy struggles to have a conversation with a woman, it’s a huge turn off, and it can send the wrong signal. It might make him think you aren’t interested in him. Another thing that turns a man off is a long- winded woman who doesn’t know when to be quiet, or even more so, one who doesn’t know how to listen.

Never, ever, EVER lie to a man.

I really believe that lies will catch up with you sooner or later.  Many women (and men) lie about their age, marital status, employment, height, weight and a few other things in their online profiles.  That is a huge mistake.

If you find a man who you are really interested in, he will find out you lied and what trust he had for you will fly right out the window, so to will any possibility of the relationship moving forward.  So, just be honest and be REAL.  There is someone out there who will like you, even love you, for exactly the person you are.

Don’t be too eager.

This makes you look desperate and it really puts a man off.  They are first and foremost conquerors and if getting the person of their desires to like them too is just too easy, they will quickly lose interest.  I don’t mean play “hard-to-get”, but don’t push for a face-to-face meeting right away.  Don’t email them or IM them too frequently either, but also don’t seem uninterested.  Play it safe and play it cool, because you want to be safe, than sorry.

Have a Great Day.

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Author: Mr Online Dating

I am communicating with somebody from a dating site and we are close to getting out on our opening date. Wherever are the most proficient places for our first date?

The bulk of online daters hold their first date at a café. It is a very instinctive and easy surrounding where you are able to create an immediate departure or stay on for hours depending on how the date advances. So what is the most common spot was for a first date, more importantly “the best spots”. Here are a few more options…

1) Miniature golf game.
What’s neat about miniature golf is that it’s an activity date where you aim to experience the new person whilst undergoing some fun. In a locale such as this, it’s more comfortable for your persona (and your date’s persona) to shine.

2) Hole in the Wall Eat Out.
This constitutes among those humble spots that hardly any people know about that deliver absolute great table service and food. It can involve a lot of research on your part uncovering it, but once you discover this gem, it will very much impress both your date and you.

3) Local Comedy nightspot.
Let’s face it,partaking in an entertaining experience during a first date could help build a fast bond. Plan on getting to the comedy club earlyish with your date to get time to know one an other prior to the “main event”. Being able to joke and experience fun on your date is a recipe for a great night. But if you consider your date might be shocked by forceful language or sexual insinuations from a comedian, perhaps it’s better to look somewhere else for a first date.

4) Local carnival or Theme Park.
Reports indicate that proceeding on a date at a theme park assists building a bond as the playfulness related to the event is every bit related with who the event is shared with. Hence getting together at a theme park or local funfair can offer great interactivity and amusement.
While imagining a site for a first date, be originative, but not over the top. Be sure the locale is a spot your date can meet you at (it is never a smart thought to pick up your date or permit yourself to be picked up on a first date). Your initial date might have been to a café, however being a shade imaginative (and unusual) will assist you to stand out from the bunch.

Free Internet dating sites can often be a great place to start for dating ideas. The internet has many free online dating sites and free chat rooms that offer dating related articles for singles who are looking for dating ideas. Participating in singles chat rooms is a fantastic way check out what other singles are getting up to on their latest dating adventures.

Recent internet dating research suggests that 30% of singles now use free chat rooms and online dating sites in an attempt to meet new friends and singles.

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As I have stated in the past, that the standards of thsi site are drastically going up. When we find someone who has filled out their profile with “will fill out later” or any number of gibberish letters such as “jjjjjjjjjj”,”arfjkdjkwljerkljwlekr” or whatever, their profile either will be deleted automatically or declined and they will have a chance to refill it out.

HIV Dating Sites are already a target for Nigerian scammers so why make things worse by having crappy profiles to boot? we refuse to let this happen to this site. Aside from being The Best HIV Dating Site on the internet, we are also the most policed of all the sites that can be found.

We have many members who are actually paid by us to intercept and root out scammers as well as the competition who sign up just to send emails to other members and tell them to come look at their profile on xyzdatingsite.com. Come on people, we all know that trick, and it’s no working.

Here at www.hivpoz.net we pride ourselves on how much we police the site for scammers. So much so that we installed a “Report Spam” link in everyones email. It’s on the left side of the email if you are reading an open email. All you do is click the link and it sends the senders email address, profile name and email to the administrators of this site for investigation. We love catching scammers and spammers and banning their subset of IP addresses from this whole site.

It seems lately their have not been many scammers on because we catch most if not all of them. This is through the help of all the members of the site. We really appreciate this.

Thank You to ALL of our members,

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In an article on ABC News’ Website, they had an article about How To Find Love Online. They gave 5 quick tips and then went into the tips extensively. I highly recommend this article on How To Find Love Online. Here are the quick tips and the link to the full article afterward.

Here are five tips for dating online.
1. Differentiate yourself with details.
2. Pick the perfect profile picture: It is close-up. It is smiling. It is recent.
3. Search for partners strategically. What you look for is irrelevant if they’re not looking for you back.
4. Before you publish your profile, solicit some feedback from your friends.
5. Write a winning first e-mail.

You can read the full article and explanation of the 5 Tips to Find Love Online Here.

A great article and it’s free.

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1. If you add a photo you will get 10 times as many responses.

2. Change your Subject Line occasionally when sending emails; people who aren’t original have their emails deleted without being read.

3. Non-paying members can use the instant messenger feature with any of the other online members for free. To find out who is currently online, click on ‘Click here to see who is online’ in the members area. You can instant message anyone – simply click on the ‘instant message’ link.

4. Message users without pictures; these users get far less emails making it far more likely they will reply to you.

5. In the members area you can see who has viewed your profile, by going here: http://www.hivpoz.net/index.php?page=members_area

6. To hide your online presence or other privacy features such as blocking people or “Hide me from the who’s viewed profile list” go here: http://www.hivpoz.net/index.php?page=privacy

You can also turn off the instant messenger there as well.

7. You can see this and other tips and updates in the Support Staff Blog here:

http://www.hivpoz.net/blog/

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In an effort to make this one of, if not THE top HIV Positive Dating Site, we have decided that from now on all profiles must be filled out with a description of more than “will fill this out later”. Many times thats what people will do and will never get around to really doing it.

Here at www.hivpoz.net we feel that in order to have a quality site you have to have quality profiles. This includes profiles that are filled out with a good description.  Not only is it a waste of time for us and people looking at profiles, but it is a waste of time for the person who created the profile. Why, because no one is going to email the person without a description, and they just wasted however many minutes making the profile, only to be declined.

Quality Positive Singles are what we strive to have here at www.hivpoz.net, and Quality Positive Singles is what we will have. An aside, with the presence of spammers and scammers on many dating sites we are constantly policing the site for scammers. If you receive an email from a suspected scammer please report them to us, by using the “Report Spam” link inside of your email inbox.

We hope to provide you with the best online dating experience possible.

Thanks,

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